All victims deserve compassion.
If you want to do any justice to the memory of missing people or victims of violence, please please please look up "missing white girl syndrome" and get angry. Demand media coverage that doesn't select stories based on the gender, race, and class of the victim.
Please read 'The missing white girl syndrome': disappeared women and media activism by Sarah Stillman (Gender & Development, Volume 15, Issue 3 November 2007 , pages 491 - 502).
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